Programming LightsOut Game

I'm having problems programming the LightsOut game. I made a 5*5 matrix and filled it in with 1's and 0's, where 1 means on and 0 is off, they should be placed randomly. The player can choose a field, for example "A2", and the matrix should change according to the input. My problems are how can I choose a field ? How can I display the new matrix after playing the first step and so on?

PS: I'm using the console because I'm still not good with JOptionPane commands.This is my code for the Game:

public class TestLightsOut {
public static void main(String[] args) {
// TODO Auto-generated method stub
int[][] blocks = new int[5][5];
String[] letters = { "A", "B", "C", "D", "E" };
String[] numbers = { " ", " ", " ", " ", "1 ", "2 ", "3 ", "4 ", "5 " };
String[] line = { " ", " ", "_", "_", "_", "_", "_", "_", "_",
"_", "_", "_", "_" };

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