Compare Count Left Join?

I have the following tables.

Employee table

EmpNum, Department, Gender
100 AAA M
101 AAA F
102 BBB M
103 BBB F
104 AAA M
105 BBB F

EmpProducts table

EmpNum,Item
100 A1
100 A1
100 A2
101 A2
102 B1
102 B3
103 B2
104 A1
104 A2
105 B1

Products table

Deparment, Item, QtyM, QtyF
AAA A1 2 1
AAA A2 1 0
AAA A3 1 1
BBB B1 1 1
BBB B2 2 3
BBB B3 3 3

Each employee need to have a specific amount of product that is assigned to the employees department I need to know if they have to little or to many. The result should be like this.

100 have the correct items for the gender and department so he should not be in the result.

101 A2 1 She is 1 over the 0 she should have.
102 B2 -2
102 B3 -2
103 B1 -1
103 B2 -2
103 B2 -3
104 A1 -1
104 A3 -1
105 B2 -3
105 B3 -3

I made this SQL but i got stock in the count.

Select ep.item, e.Empnum, p.item from employee e
INNER JOIN products p
on p.department = e.department
LEFT JOIN EmpProducts ep
on e.Empnum = ep.EmpNum
and p.items = ep.item

here I need the count of the specific item and compare it against the QtyM if gender is male and against QtyF if gender is female

where
EmpProductCount <> ProductsQty
order by Empnum