DTExec Is Taking All My Memory

I have created a SSIS package that reads 500 text files splits them into 4 raw files then reads them again and writes then to 4 database tables different Tables.

The reason form this is that my raw files have multiple types of records in them and it is only 1 Coolum. I split this out into the different types of records and load whole rows into the database.

ie input 1 txt file

<T6>
1:1000178
3:18148821-00
5:40204043
6:1
17:EX201036259NZ
25:0000304862
</T6>
<T1>
1:18148821-00
</T1>
<T5>
1:1511313
4:18126485-00
8:2006032510230300
17:EX201033399NZ
</T5>
<T6>
1:1511158
3:18084863-00
5:40617044
6:1
17:EX201033969NZ
25:0000302981
</T6>


End up begin rows in the T6 Table
1000178 18148821-00 40204043 1 EX201036259NZ 0000304862
1511158 18084863-00 40617044 1 EX201033969NZ 0000302981

T5 Table gets a new record
1511313 18126485-00 2006032510230300 EX201033399NZ

and T1 Table get a record
18148821-00

Anyway all this works find but I find that the DTExec process work fine until it has used up all the memory in the laptop in general it take 400megs to run this SSIS. I'm wondering am I missing something like don't run in a transaction. I know in the old DTS you could commit on each package and how do I turn all logging off eg what you see in the DOS box (can I do this?) would love some help on this and if anyone want a copy of this ssis package ie your trying to do the same then I'm more than happy to email it.