Find Not Matched

I am very new to MsSQL having only used Access before.
I am trying to find records in the second select statement that aren't in the first select statement. Using the

dbo.Tbl_01035_Tour_Players.TourTypeId (1st select stat)
Tbl_01020_Tour_Types.TourTypeId (2nd select stat)

Have been working on it for 15 hours now and still can't find a way to do it. Thanxs in advance

@_MemberIdint


AS
BEGIN
SET NOCOUNT ON;
Begin
SELECT dbo.Tbl_01035_Tour_Players.TourTypeId, dbo.Tbl_01035_Tour_Players.MemberId, dbo.Tbl_01030_Tour_Schedule.Sch_TourId,
dbo.Tbl_01030_Tour_Schedule.Sch_TourStartDate, dbo.Tbl_01030_Tour_Schedule.Sch_TourEndDate,
dbo.Tbl_01030_Tour_Schedule.Sch_TourGame
FROM dbo.Tbl_01035_Tour_Players INNER JOIN
dbo.Tbl_01030_Tour_Schedule ON dbo.Tbl_01035_Tour_Players.TourId = dbo.Tbl_01030_Tour_Schedule.Sch_TourId
WHERE (dbo.Tbl_01030_Tour_Schedule.Sch_TourEndDate >= GETDATE()) and dbo.Tbl_01035_Tour_Players.MemberId = @_MemberId
End



Begin
SELECT Tbl_01020_Tour_Types.TourTypeId, Tbl_01020_Tour_Types.TourGame, Tbl_01020_Tour_Types.TourDescr, Tbl_01020_Tour_Types.TourDaysDur,
Tbl_01020_Tour_Types.TourMinPot
FROM Tbl_01020_Tour_Types CROSS JOIN
Tbl_01035_Tour_Players
WHERE (NOT (Tbl_01020_Tour_Types.TourTypeId = db.Tbl_01035_Tour_Players.TourTypeID))
End