SQL Sever 2005 Remote Uploads

Hi,
I created a small application to upload small video files on my
local machine and tested it to work perfectly on my local sql server
database. I then change the connection string to connect to the remote
database.When I do this and try to upload, the application hangs and
the video file is not uploaded. The file is small file only about 10MB
or less.When I upload the same file locally,it works perfectly fine and
uploads quickly without hanging.
Here's a link to sample of my web.config file
http://www.bleusolutions.com/sampleconfig.txt

Here's a link to the page
http://www.bleusolutions.com/foto/uploadvideo.aspx
I believe that this may be a database issue. I am running my
application locally
(http://localhost:4796/BleuS/foto/uploadvideo.aspx)and all I do is
change the web.config connection string to point to my local database
or to the remote database.
When I point to my local database the application works fine as you can see: http://www.bleusolutions.com/images/localupload.jpg

When
I run the application locally and change the connection string to point
to the remote database this is when I have problems with the same video
file. The application hangs for a minute or two and then it finally
finishes the upload. When I go to the database to view the table the
table takes a minute or two to open and then I get this message:
http://www.bleusolutions.com/images/remoteupload.jpg

And this is what the table looks like after I click Ok
http://www.bleusolutions.com/images/remoteupload2.jpg
 
Any help on why this is happening or how I can fix this issue will be greatly appreciated.
 Thanks