Sending Large Binary To SQL Server Via ADO.NET

Hi,
I am having some trouble with my ASP page sending a file to a SQL Server 2005 database running on another machine. An exception is generated as follows:
A transport-level error has occurred when sending the request to the server. (provider: TCP Provider, error: 0 - An existing connection was forcibly closed by the remote host.) 
 It seems to work ok with smaller files, but when I attempt to upload a 11MB file, it gives me the above exception. I upped the httpRuntime maxRequestLength in the web.config to 2048.


 Any Ideas?
 
Here is my code:1 if (FileUploader.HasFile)
2 {
3
4 // call the stored proc
5 SqlConnection conn = new SqlConnection();
6 conn.ConnectionString = "Password=password;Persist Security Info=True;User ID=MyUser;Initial Catalog=MyDb;Data Source=MySqlServerMachine;Connect Timeout=300";
7 conn.Open();
8
9 SqlCommand cmd = new SqlCommand();
10 cmd.Connection = conn;
11 cmd.CommandType = CommandType.StoredProcedure;
12 cmd.CommandText = "spAddTestBinary";
13
14 SqlParameter param = new SqlParameter();
15 param.ParameterName = "@binaryParam";
16 param.SqlDbType = SqlDbType.VarBinary;
17 param.Direction = ParameterDirection.Input;
18 param.Value = FileUploader.FileBytes;
19 cmd.Parameters.Add(param);
20
21
22 cmd.ExecuteNonQuery();
23
24
25 conn.Close();
26 }
 
 
Here is my table:

1 BinaryTable(
2 [id] [int] IDENTITY(1,1) NOT NULL,
3 [myBinary] [varbinary](max) NULL,
4 CONSTRAINT [PK_BinaryTable] PRIMARY KEY CLUSTERED
5 (
6 [id] ASC
7 )WITH (IGNORE_DUP_KEY = OFF) ON [PRIMARY]
8 ) ON [PRIMARY]

My stored proc:1 ALTER PROCEDURE [dbo].[spAddTestBinary]
2 -- Add the parameters for the stored procedure here
3 @binaryParam varbinary(MAX)
4 AS
5 BEGIN
6 -- SET NOCOUNT ON added to prevent extra result sets from
7 -- interfering with SELECT statements.
8 SET NOCOUNT ON;
9
10 -- Insert statements for procedure here
11 Insert into BinaryTable
12 (myBinary)
13 Values
14 (
15 @binaryParam
16 )
17 END